The #1 Way to Change Your Fate is a post written by Susan Turton. she offers an email series called Miss Proverbs 31 Ministries.
This post caught my eye for the simple fact that so many people want to blame someone, anyone, but themselves. I screw up things at times, just a fact, "I'm not perfect!". I have to do what is necessary to make those changes. If I'm doing something to cause harm to another it is up to me to change that behavior. No one else can do that for me. Just me.
In life my greatest hope has been to be the person God intended me to be. He can't shape me, sculpt me or mold me if I don't follow His laws.